Ian Stewart on the ongoing work of Christian Guidelines

We are living through a globally significant time.  Whatever ‘normal life’ was for us prior to March 2020 will almost certainly not return.  Not that we will never again embrace our friends and family or will always be queuing outside the supermarket but the world will look and feel different. Many areas of life will have changed.  Employment opportunities, travel, immigration, political relationships, to name a few, will all be affected and on top of that there will be many who will be facing the future without a loved one due to the virus.  This can be a very unsettling prospect.

It is clearly understood by the health professionals that the measures being taken to safeguard our physical health can themselves lead to a deterioration in our mental health.  We were created as relational beings.  Physical, relational, emotional and spiritual contact between us is essential for our continued wellbeing.  The longer we are deprived of it the greater risk of damage, particularly to the young who are unable to understand why they can’t simply play with their friends or visit their granny.

Relationships, which were already under some form of strain, may find a period of enforced ‘togetherness’ an even greater burden.  Those relationships which had already deteriorated into physical animosity may further descend into violence.  It is not a comforting picture but very many people are aware of the negative influences upon society at present and are doing what they can to help and the staff and counsellors of Christian Guidelines are among them.

Christian Guidelines was established to provide a service to those in need around us, a service that is firmly based upon the Word of God and seeks to bring healing and wholeness into individual lives and marriage relationship.  The service is still available, though provided in a different way during this Covid 19 lockdown.  Our office has temporarily ‘re-located’ and can still be contacted by telephone or email.

We cannot provide face to face counselling but we can offer telephone support to those who may need some contact with a counsellor while waiting for the face to face sessions to recommence.  In situations considered particularly urgent we can arrange for online counselling.  These are temporary provisions to address the current crisis and will be withdrawn once we are able to re-open our counselling facilities.

Please understand that this is not a ‘telephone helpline’ service.  The process to access our services has not changed.  Application is made by contacting our office to request a Self-Referral Form which can be supplied online or through the post.  It can be returned online or by post and once received it will be assessed by our Counselling Co-Ordinator to determine the most appropriate form of help we can provide.

Help during Covid-19 Outbreak

Due to government guidance on social distancing our office in Bangor is currently closed and all face to face counselling is postponed. However, we are still providing some support and we are accepting referrals. During this time we can offer telephone support for those requiring counselling and we may also be able to offer online help for those whose situation is considered serious or urgent.  This is done by scheduled appointment only.  (Unfortunately this service is not a helpline - clients need to fill in a referral form which is assessed by our counselling co-ordinator). You can request an referral form by clicking on the ‘contact’ button at the top of the page.

You can also still call our office on 02891468846 and leave a message.

If you are feeling vulnerable you can contact the helplines below

https://www.lifelinehelpline.info/

http://www.premierlifeline.org.uk/

https://helplinesni.com/ (list of Covid-19 helplines)

https://www.samaritans.org/

You can also check the following website for useful tips:

https://www.mindandsoulfoundation.org/

Trauma CPD Training 15th & 16th November 2019 with Patricia Bourke D’Sousa

This event has now been rescheduled.

Date: Friday 15th November 7.30 – 9.30pm (Registration 7pm)

Saturday 16th November 10am – 4.30pm (Registration at 9.30am)

Venue: Belfast Bible College, Glenburn House, Glenburn Rd S, Dunmurry, Belfast BT17 9JP

Seminars: Friday: Rainbows- The Importance of Resourcing. (2 hours CPD)

Saturday: Prevention of Vicarious Trauma, Compassion Fatigue and Burnout (5 hours CPD) - This one day workshop is ideally suited for those working in therapeutic, front line, emergency/first response, trauma, health, pastoral and social care services.

Cost: Friday Only =£10

Friday and Saturday = £50

Saturday only = £40

To Register: Fill in the form below, email admin@cguidelines.org.uk stating which seminars you are attending (we will acknowledge your booking). Alternatively you can call our office on 02891468846

Tea & Coffee provided – please bring a packed lunch

Patricia Bourke D’Sousa, an accredited Counsellor and Psychotherapist (MIACP, MIAHIP), an accredited Supervisor (MIACP) and a leading specialist in the treatment of psychological trauma, has agreed to facilitate the above training.

Patricia works as a Somatic Trauma Therapist, Trainer, Supervisor and Consultant. For over 20 years Patricia has worked in the corporate, statutory, educational, community and voluntary sectors in Ireland and abroad and has considerable experience working in the homeless and mental health sectors where she led out on the development and implementation of a number of mental health and social care national training programmes and workshops.

Patricia is a Christian who delivers her material in a gracious, loving and compassionate manner while all the time being highly professional and well informed.

Trauma CPD Training 30 & 31 August 2019 with Patricia Bourke D’Sousa

Date: Friday 30th August 7.30 – 9.30pm (Registration 7pm)

Saturday 31st August 10am – 4.30pm (Registration at 9.30am)

Venue: Belfast Bible College, Glenburn House, Glenburn Rd S, Dunmurry, Belfast BT17 9JP

Seminars: Friday: Rainbows- The Importance of Resourcing. (2 hours CPD)

Saturday: Prevention of Vicarious Trauma, Compassion Fatigue and Burnout (5 hours CPD) - This one day workshop is ideally suited for those working in therapeutic, front line, emergency/first response, trauma, health, pastoral and social care services.

Cost: Friday Only =£10

Friday and Saturday = £50

Saturday only = £40

To Register: Fill in the form below, email admin@cguidelines.org.uk stating which seminars you are attending (we will acknowledge your booking). Alternatively you can call our office on 02891468846

Tea & Coffee provided – please bring a packed lunch

Patricia Bourke D’Sousa, an accredited Counsellor and Psychotherapist (MIACP, MIAHIP), an accredited Supervisor (MIACP) and a leading specialist in the treatment of psychological trauma, has agreed to facilitate the above training.

Patricia works as a Somatic Trauma Therapist, Trainer, Supervisor and Consultant. For over 20 years Patricia has worked in the corporate, statutory, educational, community and voluntary sectors in Ireland and abroad and has considerable experience working in the homeless and mental health sectors where she led out on the development and implementation of a number of mental health and social care national training programmes and workshops.

Patricia is a Christian who delivers her material in a gracious, loving and compassionate manner while all the time being highly professional and well informed.